Suad Aldarra: I Don’t Want to Talk About Home

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Friday 15 July 2022

5:00 pm


Bantry Library

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I Don't Want to Talk About Home by Suad Aldarra is a powerful debut memoir reframing the Syrian migrant experience and what it is to rebuild your life out of the rubble. Suad will be in conversation with Sasha de Buyl

Admission: Free

Suad Al Darra. Picture: Bríd O'Donovan

‘I carry my troubled homeland within me; I hide it like a crime.’ Growing up in deeply conservative Saudi Arabia, Suad Aldarra felt stifled. The daughter of Syrian parents, she railed against the extreme strictures placed on women in Saudi society at the time and the rising prejudice her family faced as migrants. When the opportunity arose to study software engineering at Damascus University, she jumped at the chance to move to the city she loved for a degree of freedom she’d never known. But when the war started, everything changed. Suddenly Suad and her new husband Housam were thrown into a world of relentless pressure, desperately looking for a way out. Suad’s degree in engineering was the saving grace that allowed her to travel to Ireland on a working visa. Yet reaching safety came at a price… I Don’t Want to Talk About Home is not a memoir about war and destruction. It’s not about camps or boats. It’s about the enduring love for a home that ceased to exist and how to build a life out of the rubble. With great warmth and insight, Suad writes about those left behind paper borders, the sacrifices made, and the parts of yourself you lose and find when integrating into a new world.



Suad Aldarra

Suad Aldarra is a writer and data scientist based in Dublin. She was born in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia to Syrian parents. In 2003 she moved back to her family home...

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Sasha de Buyl

Sasha de Buyl is the Director of Cúirt International Festival of Literature in Galway. She has worked for over ten years as a literature development professional in Scotland and prior to...

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