Daragh Fleming: Lonely Boy

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Tuesday 11 July 2023

11:30 am


Bantry Bookshop

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Daragh Fleming’s 'Lonely Boy' is an honest portrayal of mental health, wellbeing and recovery which opens with a quote from Seneca, Moral Letters that states: ‘I will keep constant watch over myself.’ Throughout the book, loss, friendship and death are at the forefront, and they are observed with a quiet awareness. It is at times a memoir, at times a guide, but it is always conscious of what it is doing. Daragh, as in life, is keeping a constant watch over his writing and the effect of his words.

Daragh will be in conversation with Madeleine D'Arcy and Danielle McLaughlin

Admission: Free

Daragh’s writing is simple, direct, and incredibly honest. There is a vulnerability to the topics that he deals with, and he does not try to hide from it. Lonely Boy deals with the tragic suicide of a best friend, crippling panic attacks, what it is to be a man and what is expected of dangerous paradigms, the benefits of therapy, among many other pertinent discussions that should happen much more frequently. The writing is intimate and vernacular, so you feel that you might just be in a bar with Daragh where the conversation is flowing easily. By writing this book, in this way, Daragh reveals how these conversations in our society do not flow as easily or as frequently as they should.


At the heart of Lonely Boy is a man trying to be at peace with himself and his past, so that he can navigate his future. By doing this, he opens up about his struggles with mental health and what has worked for him. He is at no point condescending or preachy, but instead welcoming and helpful. He admits that he does not have the answers but by sharing his story with us helps us understand the questions. This is a book for anyone who has struggled with mental health, any man who does not feel like he fits in, and anyone who is open to reflection and growth.



Daragh Fleming

Daragh Fleming is an author from Cork. His debut in nonfiction is a collection of essays on mental health called Lonely Boy. He is a passionate mental health advocacy and...

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Madeleine D'Arcy

Madeleine D’Arcy is a fiction writer based in Cork City, Ireland. Her second collection of linked short fiction, Liberty Terrace (Doire Press, 2021) is Cork’s One City, One Book 2023....

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Danielle McLaughlin

Danielle McLaughlin’s short story collection Dinosaurs on Other Planets was published in 2015 by The Stinging Fly Press. In 2019, she was a Windham-Campbell Prize recipient, and won the Sunday Times Audible...

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